Young people fear. Didn't know that! Among flowering puberty, acne outbreaks, and bruise to find walk in life is a struggle. You should note this, screaming in frustration, screaming, threatening, and keep always the villain to escape. There are approaches that work to build a relationship with your teen.
As an adult, not a baby to see
Talk with your child means no speak. Teens, walk to the largest part by schlauem because they have internal conflicts. The responsibility of the care necessary to maintain their self-esteem in this part of his life. If your teen is 12 or 13 years old, consider volunteering or other ways to work. This is the latent tensions and give them a sense of duty. A homeless shelter, my brothers and senior centers seeking help. Teen humiliated and help do. By itself make them feel by treating it as an adult.
Do not force the conversation
"Just for me you speak!" "No!" Sound familiar? Stop. You are just frustrating, that you yourself and your children more, closed. Young people need reflective time trying to find things on their own. If you are quiet and not so speak, body language is more than words. If
you feel that you have entered the zone by drugs or alcohol, there are
non profit center that can help you to find out if this is the cause.
Many young people complete a straight, because that is how they handle the new experience of life, body, and soul. As long as they are harmless creatures, are supported. A simple "Hey, love you. Here if you need me "offers a number of emotions for your teen. Then don't let alone, conversation or a fake smile with violence and laughs. Back to what you do. Believe if your teen to say something, they will come to you. As long as the door with a bright and shiny mat mentally leave you.
Motivation is the key
Young people often suffer from low self-esteem. It is a product of the school, friends or simply a reflection of self. Try not to difficult. If you see that they are having a bad day, the entire "see" how cute you look! "do not fly. Be real and the Earth by your child. If
a girl as they sit stewing before his plate raise eyebrows You "get my
eyes beautiful dark heritage in this way", and send a cheeky smile,
before she returned to your food. The smile comes from a moment of humor to relieve the mood they are spoiled.
The last word
Young people can be a pain. This is really understood and felt by parents universal! They make you a few years earlier than planned to develop some gray hair. The biggest way to avoid another headache is an understanding of the space. Encouragement, spaces and inspiring. Change causes, volunteer work, or work to inspire them. Rather they mean their recognition of the year than you'll ever know.
